New Year ... New Views !!! Cheers to 2020

𝙒𝙝𝙚𝙣 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜𝙨 𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙧𝙚𝙢𝙤𝙫𝙚𝙙 𝙛𝙧𝙤𝙢 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙡𝙞𝙛𝙚, 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙮 𝙜𝙞𝙫𝙚 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙖𝙣 𝙤𝙥𝙥𝙤𝙧𝙩𝙪𝙣𝙞𝙩𝙮 𝙩𝙤 𝙨𝙚𝙚 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧𝙨𝙚𝙡𝙛. 2019 MAAAAY 𝙝𝙖𝙫𝙚 𝙗𝙚𝙚𝙣 𝙖 𝙧𝙤𝙪𝙜𝙝 𝙮𝙚𝙖𝙧 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙢𝙖𝙣𝙮 𝙤𝙛 𝙪𝙨 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙜𝙧𝙖𝙣𝙩𝙚𝙙 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙮𝙚𝙖𝙧 𝙞𝙨𝙣’𝙩 𝙤𝙫𝙚𝙧 𝙮𝙚𝙩 𝙬𝙚 𝙝𝙖𝙫𝙚 𝙢𝙖𝙙𝙚 𝙞𝙩. 𝙁𝙤𝙧 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙢𝙤𝙨𝙩 𝙥𝙖𝙧𝙩 𝙬𝙚 𝙝𝙖𝙫𝙚 𝙢𝙖𝙙𝙚 𝙞𝙩. P𝙚𝙧𝙨𝙤𝙣𝙖𝙡 𝙙𝙞𝙨𝙖𝙨𝙩𝙚𝙧𝙨; 𝙡𝙞𝙠𝙚 𝙗𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙠𝙪𝙥𝙨, 𝙟𝙤𝙗 𝙡𝙤𝙨𝙨𝙚𝙨, 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙙𝙚𝙖𝙩𝙝 𝙤𝙛 𝙡𝙤𝙫𝙚𝙙 𝙤𝙣𝙚𝙨; 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙩𝙚𝙣𝙙 𝙩𝙤 𝙖𝙙𝙙 𝙛𝙪𝙚𝙡 𝙩𝙤 𝙖 𝙣𝙤𝙩-𝙜𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙩 12 𝙢𝙤𝙣𝙩𝙝𝙨. 𝘽𝙪𝙩 𝙗𝙚𝙛𝙤𝙧𝙚 2019 𝙚𝙣𝙙𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙚 𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙢𝙤𝙧𝙚 𝙩𝙤𝙭𝙞𝙘 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜𝙨 𝙩𝙤 𝙧𝙚𝙢𝙤𝙫𝙚 𝙛𝙧𝙤𝙢 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙡𝙞𝙛𝙚. L𝙞𝙠𝙚 𝙨𝙤𝙘𝙞𝙖𝙡 𝙢𝙚𝙙𝙞𝙖, 𝙗𝙖𝙙 𝙛𝙧𝙞𝙚𝙣𝙙𝙨, single-minded 𝙧𝙤𝙢𝙖𝙣𝙩𝙞𝙘 𝙥𝙖𝙧𝙩𝙣𝙚𝙧𝙨, 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙪𝙣𝙖𝙫𝙖𝙞𝙡𝙖𝙗𝙡𝙚 𝙘𝙧𝙪𝙨𝙝𝙚𝙨/𝙛𝙧𝙞𝙚𝙣𝙙𝙨/𝙛𝙖𝙢𝙞𝙡𝙮 𝙚𝙩𝙘. L𝙚𝙩’𝙨 𝙢𝙖𝙠𝙚 𝙧𝙤𝙤𝙢 𝙣𝙤𝙬 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙖𝙡𝙡 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙚𝙭𝙘𝙞𝙩𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙣𝙚𝙬 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜𝙨 𝙝𝙚𝙖𝙙𝙚𝙙 𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙬𝙖𝙮 𝙞𝙣 2020. 𝙏𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜𝙨 𝙨𝙪𝙘𝙝 𝙖𝙨 𝙡𝙤𝙫𝙚, 𝙣𝙚𝙬 𝙡𝙞𝙛𝙚, 𝙣𝙚𝙬 𝙛𝙧𝙞𝙚𝙣𝙙𝙨𝙝𝙞𝙥𝙨, 𝙗𝙪𝙨𝙞𝙣𝙚𝙨𝙨 𝙫𝙚𝙣𝙩𝙪𝙧𝙚𝙨, 𝙟𝙤𝙗 𝙤𝙥𝙥𝙤𝙧𝙩𝙪𝙣𝙞𝙩𝙞𝙚𝙨, 𝙙𝙞𝙛𝙛𝙚𝙧𝙚𝙣𝙩 𝙨𝙤𝙘𝙞𝙖𝙡 𝙘𝙞𝙧𝙘𝙡𝙚𝙨, 𝙚𝙩𝙘. 

As the old Marie Kondo adage goes, 'when you get rid of old clothes (and bad habits), i.e., the stuff that no longer fits right, no longer feels good, and no longer meshes with who you are today, you give yourself permission to open up space for the stuff that fits better.'

G𝙞𝙫𝙚 𝙪𝙥 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 divert 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙛𝙧𝙤𝙢 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙜𝙤𝙖𝙡𝙨. 𝙄𝙣𝙨𝙩𝙚𝙖𝙙 𝙤𝙛 𝙖𝙙𝙙𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙢𝙤𝙧𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜𝙨 𝙩𝙤 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙡𝙞𝙛𝙚, 𝙩𝙧𝙮 𝙧𝙚𝙢𝙤𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙨𝙤𝙢𝙚 𝙣𝙚𝙜𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙫𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙝𝙤𝙡𝙙 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙗𝙖𝙘𝙠.

𝙍𝙚𝙢𝙤𝙫𝙚 𝙀𝙭𝙘𝙪𝙨𝙚𝙨. 𝙍𝙚𝙢𝙤𝙫𝙚 𝙋𝙚𝙧𝙛𝙚𝙘𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣𝙞𝙨𝙢. 𝙍𝙚𝙢𝙤𝙫𝙚 𝙁𝙚𝙖𝙧. 𝙍𝙚𝙢𝙤𝙫𝙚 𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙉𝙚𝙚𝙙 𝙏𝙤 𝘾𝙤𝙣𝙩𝙧𝙤𝙡 𝙀𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙮𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜. 𝙍𝙚𝙢𝙤𝙫𝙚 𝘼 𝙁𝙞𝙭𝙚𝙙 𝙈𝙞𝙣𝙙𝙨𝙚𝙩. 𝙍𝙚𝙢𝙤𝙫𝙚 𝙏𝙤𝙭𝙞𝙘 𝙋𝙚𝙤𝙥𝙡𝙚. 𝙍𝙚𝙢𝙤𝙫𝙚 𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙉𝙚𝙚𝙙 𝙏𝙤 𝙎𝙖𝙮 𝙔𝙚𝙨 (𝙒𝙝𝙚𝙣 𝙍𝙚𝙖𝙡𝙡𝙮 𝙔𝙤𝙪 𝙒𝙖𝙣𝙩 𝙏𝙤 𝙎𝙖𝙮 𝙉𝙤).

𝘾𝙝𝙖𝙣𝙜𝙚 𝙞𝙨 𝙨𝙤𝙢𝙚𝙩𝙞𝙢𝙚𝙨 𝙖 𝙜𝙤𝙤𝙙 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜, 𝙚𝙨𝙥𝙚𝙘𝙞𝙖𝙡𝙡𝙮 𝙞𝙛 𝙮𝙤𝙪'𝙫𝙚 𝙜𝙤𝙩𝙩𝙚𝙣 𝙩𝙤𝙤 𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙛𝙤𝙧𝙩𝙖𝙗𝙡𝙚 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙨𝙩𝙤𝙥𝙥𝙚𝙙 𝙜𝙧𝙤𝙬𝙞𝙣𝙜. 𝙒𝙚 𝙘𝙖𝙣 𝙣𝙖𝙩𝙪𝙧𝙖𝙡𝙡𝙮 𝙜𝙚𝙩 self-satisfied 𝙞𝙣 𝙡𝙞𝙛𝙚, 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙟𝙤𝙗𝙨, 𝙖𝙘𝙩𝙞𝙫𝙞𝙩𝙞𝙚𝙨, 𝙛𝙧𝙞𝙚𝙣𝙙𝙨𝙝𝙞𝙥𝙨 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙖𝙩𝙩𝙞𝙩𝙪𝙙𝙚𝙨. 𝘿𝙤𝙣 𝙩 𝙨𝙚𝙩𝙩𝙡𝙚 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙖 so-so 𝙡𝙞𝙛𝙚, 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙨 𝙞𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙤𝙣𝙡𝙮 𝙤𝙣𝙚 𝙮𝙤𝙪’𝙫𝙚 𝙜𝙤𝙩.

2 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜𝙨 𝙄’𝙫𝙚 𝙡𝙚𝙖𝙧𝙣𝙚𝙙 𝙞𝙣 𝙡𝙞𝙛𝙚 𝙖𝙗𝙤𝙪𝙩 𝙥𝙚𝙤𝙥𝙡𝙚 …

1) 𝙨𝙤𝙢𝙚𝙤𝙣𝙚’𝙨 𝙥𝙧𝙚𝙨𝙚𝙣𝙘𝙚, 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙧𝙞𝙜𝙝𝙩 𝙨𝙤𝙢𝙚𝙤𝙣𝙚 𝙘𝙖𝙣 𝙘𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙩𝙚 𝙛𝙚𝙚𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙜𝙨 𝙤𝙛 𝙟𝙤𝙮 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙧𝙚𝙡𝙞𝙚𝙛.

2) 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙥𝙧𝙚𝙨𝙚𝙣𝙘𝙚 𝙤𝙛 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙬𝙧𝙤𝙣𝙜 𝙥𝙚𝙧𝙨𝙤𝙣 𝙘𝙖𝙣 𝙘𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙩𝙚 𝙖 𝙨𝙤𝙧𝙩 𝙤𝙛 𝙚𝙢𝙤𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣𝙖𝙡 𝙘𝙤𝙣𝙛𝙡𝙞𝙘𝙩 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙘𝙖𝙣 𝙙𝙖𝙢𝙖𝙜𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙨𝙤𝙪𝙡.

M𝙖𝙠𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙥𝙧𝙤𝙥𝙚𝙧 𝙙𝙚𝙘𝙞𝙨𝙞𝙤𝙣𝙨 𝙩𝙤 𝙥𝙪𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧𝙨𝙚𝙡𝙛 𝙘𝙡𝙤𝙨𝙚𝙧 𝙩𝙤 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙥𝙚𝙖𝙘𝙚 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙟𝙤𝙮 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙙𝙚𝙨𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙚 𝙙𝙪𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙩𝙞𝙢𝙚 𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙚 𝙤𝙣 𝙚𝙖𝙧𝙩𝙝. S𝙤𝙢𝙚𝙩𝙞𝙢𝙚𝙨 𝙖 𝙡𝙤𝙨𝙨 𝙞𝙨 𝙖 𝙜𝙖𝙞𝙣. S𝙤𝙢𝙚𝙩𝙞𝙢𝙚𝙨 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙝𝙖𝙫𝙚 𝙩𝙤 𝙡𝙤𝙨𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜𝙨 𝙩𝙤 𝙜𝙖𝙞𝙣 𝙢𝙤𝙧𝙚 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙨𝙤𝙢𝙚𝙩𝙞𝙢𝙚𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜𝙨 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙩𝙝𝙤𝙪𝙜𝙝𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙡𝙤𝙨𝙩 𝙬𝙚𝙧𝙚𝙣’𝙩 𝙡𝙤𝙨𝙨𝙚𝙨 𝙖𝙩 𝙖𝙡𝙡. B𝙚𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙧𝙞𝙜𝙝𝙩 𝙥𝙚𝙧𝙨𝙤𝙣, 𝙨𝙪𝙧𝙧𝙤𝙪𝙣𝙙𝙚𝙙 𝙗𝙮 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙧𝙞𝙜𝙝𝙩 𝙥𝙚𝙤𝙥𝙡𝙚 𝙞𝙨 𝙨𝙤𝙢𝙚𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 I’𝙫𝙚 𝙨𝙩𝙧𝙞𝙫𝙚𝙙 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙗𝙪𝙩 𝙞𝙣 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙚𝙣𝙙, 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙚’𝙨 𝙣𝙤𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙬𝙧𝙤𝙣𝙜 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝙗𝙚𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙖𝙡𝙤𝙣𝙚 𝙞𝙛 𝙞𝙩 𝙢𝙚𝙖𝙣𝙨 𝙗𝙚𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙘𝙡𝙤𝙨𝙚𝙧 𝙩𝙤 𝙝𝙖𝙥𝙥𝙞𝙣𝙚𝙨𝙨. 𝙄 𝙥𝙧𝙖𝙮 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙝𝙤𝙥𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙤𝙨𝙚 𝙬𝙝𝙤 𝙣𝙚𝙚𝙙 𝙩𝙤 𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙖𝙗𝙡𝙚 𝙩𝙤 𝙛𝙞𝙣𝙙 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙨𝙩𝙧𝙚𝙣𝙜𝙩𝙝 𝙩𝙤 𝙡𝙚𝙩 𝙜𝙤 𝙤𝙛 𝙖𝙡𝙡 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙣𝙤 𝙡𝙤𝙣𝙜𝙚𝙧 𝙨𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙚 𝙖 𝙥𝙤𝙨𝙞𝙩𝙞𝙫𝙚 𝙥𝙪𝙧𝙥𝙤𝙨𝙚 𝙞𝙣 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙞𝙧 𝙡𝙞𝙛𝙚.

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The truth is, everyone is going to hurt you. You just got to find the ones worth suffering for. 

-Bob Marley 💚💙💛💜💓💙💚💛💜

🦄 𝐿𝑜𝓋𝑒 𝒾𝓈 𝐿𝑜𝓋𝑒 ... 𝑒𝓋𝑒𝓃 𝒾𝒻 𝒾𝓉 𝒾𝓈 𝒻𝓇𝑜𝓂 𝒶 𝒹𝒾𝓈𝓉𝒶𝓃𝒸𝑒. 🦄

𝐻𝑒𝓇𝑒’𝓈 𝓉𝑜 2020 🌟🌻🌻

Everyone Doesn't Deserve You !!!

Of all the people we will date in life, finding someone who truly deserves you will be like looking for a needle in a haystack. There will be individuals who’ll measure up in many ways but finding someone who really has your best interest at heart and is a balance with you in all the ways that matter isn’t always easy.  Because of this, every now and then we tend to hang on longer than we should when it’s just not right! Every now and then the person you’re dating doesn’t deserve you. Wait .... what did she say? 🤨 Yes chiiiilllle’ read it again .... sometimes the person you’re dating DOES NOT DESERVE YOU‼️

Have you ever met someone with a flawless relationship? Trust and believe it’s a lot of hurt behind closed doors, but so often we get caught up that we miss the signs. A partner is supposed to support you, so your doubts are limited.

SUPPORT:  bear all or part of the weight of; hold up. a thing (partner) that bears the weight of something (partner) or keeps it upright. to hold up or serve as a foundation. to keep from fainting, yielding, or losing courage: COMFORT

Now if you find yourself in a connection in which you are often wondering what the hell you’re doing with your life, then dear that is NOT a good sign. A relationship is supposed to be about finding your equal. If your companion makes you feel like you don’t measure up to their expectations, or if you don’t feel like you’re on the same page than .... 🛑 that my friends is another red flag. You may have accomplished more than your partner or vice versa, you may have your shit together and they could be working on getting their shit together ... regardless of the nature of your differences it should be respected, valued, appreciated and all the above. If someone doesn’t respect your dreams, understand your grind, and/or push you to be a better you than you were the day before then they don’t respect you either. Self-absorption is factual. Self-absorption can lead to a controlling relationship. A relationship should NEVER be about one individual ... but always recognize who’s needs get the most attention!

Everyone doesn’t deserve you!!! How do they make you feel? It’s one thing if you’re equal in position to their family and close friends, but you shouldn’t be second. No one should ever feel that they’re not of importance to their partner. If there’s a big imbalance in how much they give and how much you give, it simply means they’re not invested as much as you. You want someone who’s giving it their all and not being just half-assed about you or your relationship. Just remember how perfectly fine you were doing before them and how perfectly fine you will do after they are gone. You can't be with someone like this—someone who makes you feel unhappy, depressed, confused, and wounded.

** DO NOT LOSE YOURSELF **

It’s normal to change a bit in a relationship, as a means to adjust, but you should never lose yourself completely. Sometimes we miss the signs of change and look at it as “evolving!”

EVOLVE: to produce by natural processes

Keyword: NATURAL ... not because or for someone else.

Don’t allow that breakdown to happen. Don’t let your companion break you! It’s in that breaking point that insecurities arise and your self-worth plunges. That is not the sign of a healthy relationship. People who make those they claim to love feel inferior are dealing with their own problems and hang-ups. You’re better than that. To quote Eleanor Roosevelt, “No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.” Don’t give them that permission. It’s sad how someone can go from being the reason you wake up smiling ... to the reason you cry yourself to sleep at night! Just remember how perfectly fine you were doing before them and how perfectly fine you will do after them. Your life doesn't depend on them ...if you're giving your all to someone and they can't even appreciate it, then what are you doing? You give your heart to people who don’t deserve it because your uncertainty of self. You think, maybe I’m asking for too much, or being unreasonable, but you shouldn’t have to guard your wants and needs, and the right person would definitely be willing to meet them. Your feelings aren’t unreasonable and wanting the love you know that you deserve isn’t either.

** EVERYONE DOESN’T DESERVE YOU ‼️‼️“ 💜