FAKING IT

How many of us are still out here faking it? Let's be honest now !!!

I am in my thirties and yet I am still out here faking it. And quick to tell someone it was good when it was just okay. I think I have become so prone to faking it throughout my twenties that if by chance it is good, it is all the same. Now if it is great, there is no faking it whatsoever from me, I may shed a little tear, my inner thigh may swell up, or my toes may cramp up like I have gout. (no judgement here ladies and gentleman).

I read somewhere that single women are more inclined to faking it, because they don't feel comfortable enough asking their partner for what they want or how they like it. Sometimes, women fake it so much to make the man feel great about himself; but ladies this is the reality - WE NEED TO BE THE ONE'S FEELING GREAT !!! You can't keep going with the flow like you're into it but not necessarily coming (get it). Are you faking it because you're tired and what it to be over? Raise your hand if you're guilty and been there just like everyone else. I came across an article that read something like, "70% of women do not experience orgasm during intercourse, compared to the vast majority of men (90%) who do!" Honestly speaking it takes time for a women to figure out that magic with their partner to stimulate an orgasm, and if you are in the dating scene and having different sexual partners then sorry girl but you may never figure it out. WHY? Because Michael may pull your hair and you like that, Derrick may slap your ass but not pull your hair and you don't understand why, Kevin may give you long strokes and it works for him and back to Michael being a bunny hopper and sometimes it pleases you. That is why you haven't to be consistent enough to find a rhythm with one partner if possible.

Men often think women have climaxed, if she rolls over afterwards and goes to sleep or just looks restless. WRONG WRONG WRONG !!! Sometimes her ass is tired from all that damn faking, hooping, and hollering she just did making you think you were rocking her world when in fact you probably only boarded the boat and couldn't get it out of the docking station. And truth be told, women don't need to climax in order for the sexual encounter to be great/good but if as a man you can get that woman to that point then KUDOS to you ! To most women orgasm is the frosting on the cake NOT the damn cake, where for men orgasm is the cake and they don't care nothing about the frosting.

Overall, women often fake orgasms to preserve her partner's feelings and often at times the relationship. However after awhile we women have to stop faking it, we are selling ourselves short; so if you like your hair pulled, ass slapped, toes licked etc let that man know, He shouldn't be the only one allowed to growl because he reached his happy ending - you deserve yours too ! ;-)