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𝙒𝙝𝙚𝙣 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜𝙨 𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙧𝙚𝙢𝙤𝙫𝙚𝙙 𝙛𝙧𝙤𝙢 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙡𝙞𝙛𝙚 , 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙮 𝙜𝙞𝙫𝙚 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙖𝙣 𝙤𝙥𝙥𝙤𝙧𝙩𝙪𝙣𝙞𝙩𝙮 𝙩𝙤 𝙨𝙚𝙚 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧𝙨𝙚𝙡𝙛 . 2019 MAAAAY 𝙝𝙖𝙫𝙚 𝙗𝙚𝙚𝙣 𝙖 𝙧𝙤𝙪𝙜𝙝 𝙮𝙚𝙖𝙧 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙢𝙖𝙣𝙮 𝙤𝙛 𝙪𝙨 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙜𝙧𝙖𝙣𝙩𝙚𝙙 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙮𝙚𝙖𝙧 𝙞𝙨𝙣 ’ 𝙩 𝙤𝙫𝙚𝙧 𝙮𝙚𝙩 𝙬𝙚 𝙝𝙖𝙫𝙚 𝙢𝙖𝙙𝙚 𝙞𝙩 . 𝙁𝙤𝙧 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙢𝙤𝙨𝙩 𝙥𝙖𝙧𝙩 𝙬𝙚 𝙝𝙖𝙫𝙚 𝙢𝙖𝙙𝙚 𝙞𝙩 . P𝙚𝙧𝙨𝙤𝙣𝙖𝙡 𝙙𝙞𝙨𝙖𝙨𝙩𝙚𝙧𝙨; 𝙡𝙞𝙠𝙚 𝙗𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙠𝙪𝙥𝙨 , 𝙟𝙤𝙗 𝙡𝙤𝙨𝙨𝙚𝙨 , 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙙𝙚𝙖𝙩𝙝 𝙤𝙛 𝙡𝙤𝙫𝙚𝙙 𝙤𝙣𝙚𝙨 ; 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙩𝙚𝙣𝙙 𝙩𝙤 𝙖𝙙𝙙 𝙛𝙪𝙚𝙡 𝙩𝙤 𝙖 𝙣𝙤𝙩 - 𝙜𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙩 12 𝙢𝙤𝙣𝙩𝙝𝙨 . 𝘽𝙪𝙩 𝙗𝙚𝙛𝙤𝙧𝙚 2019 𝙚𝙣𝙙𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙚 𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙢𝙤𝙧𝙚 𝙩𝙤𝙭𝙞𝙘 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜𝙨 𝙩𝙤 𝙧𝙚𝙢𝙤𝙫𝙚 𝙛𝙧𝙤𝙢 𝙮𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙡𝙞𝙛𝙚 . L𝙞𝙠𝙚 𝙨𝙤𝙘𝙞𝙖𝙡 𝙢𝙚𝙙𝙞𝙖 , 𝙗𝙖𝙙 𝙛𝙧𝙞𝙚𝙣𝙙𝙨 , single-minded 𝙧𝙤𝙢𝙖𝙣𝙩𝙞𝙘 𝙥𝙖𝙧𝙩𝙣𝙚𝙧𝙨 , 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙪𝙣𝙖𝙫𝙖𝙞𝙡𝙖𝙗𝙡𝙚 𝙘𝙧𝙪𝙨𝙝𝙚𝙨 / 𝙛𝙧𝙞𝙚...

Of all the people we will date in life, finding someone who truly deserves you will be like looking for a needle in a haystack. There will be individuals who’ll measure up in many ways but finding someone who really has your best interest at heart and is a balance with you in all the ways that matter isn’t always easy.  Because of this, every now and then we tend to hang on longer than we should when it’s just not right! Every now and then the person you’re dating doesn’t deserve you. Wait .... what did she say? 🤨 Yes chiiiilllle’ read it again .... sometimes the person you’re dating DOES NOT DESERVE YOU‼️ Have you ever met someone with a flawless relationship? Trust and believe it’s a lot of hurt behind closed doors, but so often we get caught up that we miss the signs. A partner is supposed to support you, so your doubts are limited. SUPPORT:     bear all or part of the weight of; hold up. a thing (partner) that bears the weight of something (partner) or kee...

  Who isn’t on some level fearful or resistant to, not just falling in love, but also  living  in love? Many of us, but how many will openly admit it? Here I am, experiencing the fear of happiness,  the fear of love, the fear of intimacy. With that fear we defend ourselves, self-protect, and self-sabotage when it comes to love or the possibility of anything good! Liking someone is easy. It's controllable. It doesn't hurt you. You don't have to force it back like a tablespoon of “tussin”. It's delicate, but in the best way. Letting ourselves fall in love means taking a real risk. We must place ourselves in a great amount of trust in another person, allowing them to affect us, which makes us feel unprotected and defenseless. Our core defenses are tested. We tend to believe that the more we care, the more we can get hurt.  We’re afraid to put ourselves out there and be vulnerable with our emotions. Love is...

People are often telling me, "God won't give you more than you can bear," or when someone is experiencing difficulty in their lives, we often say to them, “Don’t worry, God won’t give you any more than you can handle.” But the truth of the matter is .... Yes, God Will Give You More Than You Can Handle I have been writing and writing in journals for so many years and when I have those random moments in which I look back through them I often read, “God, I can’t handle this anymore. I don’t know what to do ... I give up, I quit, if it's your will, why me, why can't it just be over, etc." Over the years circumstances in my life have been nothing short of overwhelming, everything crumbling, and my world literally fell apart within 365 days year after year after year for about 4 years straight and counting. Real talk, it has been so many days when people have come alongside me and tried to reassure me by saying, “God won’t give you more than you ca...

Settling is an ugly, depressing word. But the pressure to settle can be very real, even if it is not communicated explicitly. People who are single after a certain age are often seen as "too picky" and urged to lower their standards. We learn that our worth is tied up in our ability to find a mate; that marriage marks the passage into mature adulthood and is our most important adult relationship; and that we are not complete until we find our other half. But where the hell is this written down at, what book is this published in? And then there is the issue of our "biological clocks," I mean it's no wonder that people feel rushed to settle down before they are ready, or before they find the right match. People in bad relationships are often just as depressed and lonely as people who are single. Given the importance of social connection to our well-being, it clearly makes sense that we seek out intimate relationships, but when fear of being alone drives our romant...