Love is ...

You ever met someone in life and thought to yourself if only we had another chance to do it again we could do it right? Maybe because now you both are older, much wiser and at a point in life where you truly know how to communicate and be able to reciprocate the love from one another?

Do you believe that an "ex" is an example of the type of person you don't want to cross paths with again? Are all exes the root of evil? I mean I do beg to differ, not all relationships end on bad terms. Some of the best relationships of true friendships are amongst some exes. But if you had a chance to do it all over again with an ex would you? Is it safe to say that "real love is pure and has no time frame" no matter how much time has passed, you sometimes get butterflies after all these years, you feel like your mental connection is so strong it feels wrong not being together. You watch that ex endure heartbreak, give advice, be supportive, their biggest fan in the stands, and much more but what is stopping you from being all that and much more to each other for the long haul? Pride is the ultimate serial killer ! (think about it) most exes who know they are meant for each other steer different paths because of pride, sometimes because of fear; fear that something will go wrong because it ironically feels so right.

Why is it that love often makes us afraid? Afraid to be vulnerable? Afraid to be honest with one another? Afraid to just often enjoy the moments? WHY? Because what one fear isn't love but themselves ... nothing holds us back from happiness but ourselves, not fear, not man/woman, nothing ! Has all love been lost or are you afraid to open the blinds to let it peek within your soul? Is it possible that your ex could be your next, but you're afraid of what those who don't matter would say? Maybe the ex isn't meant to be your next, but if you're afraid to open the blinds how will the next know that you're home?

Love is waiting .... <3